Classic Romance Tactics For The Shy Boyfriend

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If you are one of those shy dudes for whom words come a little slower than your ardent feelings, you might want to try falling back on the tried and tested romantic gestures of the centuries. There is no girl alive who is immune to romance, although the form of that romance may differ vastly from one woman to another. While some girls can wooed with the more conventional hearts and flowers, others would prefer passes to comic con or a science fair. But for the majority of shy boyfriends out there, the following classic romance gestures will work:
Shower Her with Flowers
Don’t do it so regularly that it becomes expected and therefore un-special, but do it often enough that your girlfriend feels special; a goof rule of thumb is flowers every month on an alternative week. Change your modus operandi each time too: do one red rose this time, order flowers online and have them delivered to her workplace the next time, and present a bouquet of flowers to her on a date the next time. Keep her on her toes by making her guess what you will bring. There are enough arrangements out there that you will not have to repeat yourself for a few months. Even then, if you order flowers online, you will find a hundred and one ideas on how to change it up.
Show Her Your Creativity
Everyone is creative in some way, whether that’s in writing music or building machines. Create something with your hands and present it to her – she’ll be impressed and flattered at the same time. If you are absolutely convinced you’re not creative at all, do what Mr. Big does in the Sex and City 2 movie: find a book of famous love letters, or find them online and write them out (write, not type) to your girlfriend. Give credit where it’s due however and don’t plagiarise. Your girl will still appreciate the effort, even if your handwriting is illegible. Link here to gather information about the flower shop that offers the most beautiful and freshest blooms that can make any occasion extra special and memorable.
Take Her Somewhere Nice
Every now and then, change the movie and pizza casual dates and take her out somewhere fancy. French and Italian restaurants have solid reputations as romantic spots (probably due to their fancy cuisine) so these are safe bets. Pick a spot with low lighting and smooth music – jazz or classical is good. Reserve a table beforehand to ensure quick service and wow your date with your impressive social skills. The trick to romance is say what you feel with your actions, but in an overt manner that your girlfriend understands. Washing her car may seem big to you, but a note tucked into her purse will win you more brownie points because it feels more personal.